Are We Prejudiced?

 

Recent unrest and demonstrations on university campuses have reminded us of student opposition to the Vietnam war, when young men with no desire to fight were objecting to being drafted and sent into battle. Critics of those demonstrations often accused the participants of being unwilling to serve their country.

Student opposition to the war in the Middle East, except for method, is very different. The issue behind it is more about taking sides. The participants claim a moral cause, objecting to American support for Israel, our financing and sending weapons and ammunition that are being used to kill Palestinians. They feel that even their schools are involved, through financial investments.

I confess to being hugely surprised by it all. I suspect that Joe Biden was surprised. First, because American support for Israel, right or wrong, has never wavered. And second, because Hamas initiated the current battle with a vicious surprise attack.

Some of the posters and chants at the student demonstrations have led to accusations of prejudice and antisemitism. And this is the part I feel a need to address.

Prejudice is a strong and obvious word. To behave with prejudice is to pre-judge, to make up your mind or react without knowing, or at least without considering the facts. (This is easy to do. I have discovered in these recent months that most Americans have no idea what might have provoked the event of October 7.)

Antisemitism is something else, more serious than prejudice. It means “against the Semites” (the descendants of Shem, eldest son of Noah), regardless of right or wrong or facts or circumstances. And they, the Jews, the descendants of Judah, are the semitic people. (Technically this definition includes the Arabs, who are “cousins” to the Jews, but this fact is ignored in modern speech.)

It was the Jews who suffered the ultimate result of hatred toward a people-group. Hitler tried to completely destroy them. And since then, any opposition to Israel is likely to be interpreted as antisemitism.

The international problem resulting is this:  The Jews established a country, “a sovereign state” as they like to say, the state called Israel. This positioned them as a responsible member of the world community, subject to the give and take, the approval and disapproval of all the others. Yet opposition to anything this state does is likely to be interpreted, by them or others, as antisemitic.

In this way the state of Israel sometimes wants to wear its Jewishness like a coat of armor. We can criticize the policies of France or Japan or Saudi and our points will be considered or maybe expected and ignored, but criticism of Israel will likely be interpreted as opposition to the Jews or antisemitism.

This causes me to appreciate more than ever the diversity of the United States. It helps us respond to the world with objectivity. And the world to respond fairly, honestly, to what we do and say.

Many years ago in Jordan, a young man who may have been Palestinian or may have been Jordanian (I really don’t remember, maybe never knew.) was a guest in our home. He was a university student, part of a group who came to our house once a week to study the Bible and play games and improve their English. Over a plate of homemade cookies, he told me how much he had admired Abraham Lincoln when he read about his freeing the slaves. “I loved him,” he kept saying.

And that had made him look up to America, he told me, but then we had failed him by our support for those who took Palestine and drove away its people.

“I thought you would do no wrong, and then you did.”

We had a long and serious conversation about American policies in the Middle East, and in conclusion he said to me:

“I hate your government, but I never met an American I didn’t like.”

I still can’t think of him without smiling.

God bless him for seeing and expressing so well the beautiful difference between the way we humans relate to power and the way we respond to people.

 

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3 Comments

  1. Lovely essay, Frances. Yes, I think we are all, even your sweet young man in the story, prejudiced. We are all taught we/them at a young age. But the really clear thinkers, even the ones who have been wounded, don’t act on those feelings. I am a wounded woman who continues to believe that women and men are owed equal rights and opportunities, despite out biologies. Fundamentalist religions, which invariably cripple women, frighten me. I can’t see a hijab or keffiyeh without wincing. Without wanting to punch somebody, or run. I have Muslim friends, men and women, and love them. But still there is that gut flinch, which says, “They’ll stone you,” “they’ll kill you,” “they’ll stifle your granddaughter.” I feel much the same about fundamentalists in this country, Christians, who are trying, some of them I hear, even to repeal the vote for women, let alone deny legal autonomy equal to that men here enjoy. But I cannot let myself act without thought. I won’t be protesting. Those protests are shout-fests. They spill over into violence. They are young people who aren’t thinking, only reacting. I wish the schools would set up real debates, talks, history lessons. From all sides. But I suspect they don’t know how to do that without riling up their “donors.” All that aside, Happy 95th, Frances. We miss you here in the mountains.

  2. Thank you Frances, for a spot on article crown your 95th Birthday- Trust you have fun and happy celebration.
    It is amazing how Jews came from under the dust of history and establish themselves, in a relatively short period of tome. Going through what the Lord permitted me to suffer, I sympathise with them. If I was one, I won’t give up a homeland regained after centuries of alienation, and suffering in the diaspora.
    That is not promoting, and/ or favouring arm struggle, but what else can be done to free people from Hamas’ aggression, here I include Palestinians who were brutally slaughtered by the terror organisation.
    My legitimate question is this; why Israeli Arabs do not complain as such? how come they enjoy citizenship and equal right in a religious State? No country in the Arab or Muslim world grant minority such right. Despite present day cruelty, Israel is a democratic State, plagued by the threat of the worst fundamentalist in el-mundo.
    Many of Palestinians fled in 1948, they have done it due to fear of Israeli revenge, against their brutality. Others left Palestine, because it was not their homeland. They have been there work opportunity, as the land prospered, when its surrounding Arab nations had famine and scarcity. Those include members of my direct family, who were registered Palestinians, to benefit from the UNRWA’s support.
    The story of your Arab/Palestinian friend touches the heart. That could have been me…

  3. Happy 95th Frances. Your new blog is always filled with balance and thought provoking stories! I think today we do very little thinking in the midst of all the yelling! I am so troubled by the anger afoot in this world.
    I worry we are marching toward a world war once again. The violent tone of politics and loss of civility in everyday life frightens me.
    I pray for peace everyday!!
    You are a shining light!
    God bless you….
    I hope to see pictures somewhere (Email??) of your
    birthday celebration!!
    Love
    Candice McKee

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