The Problem America Shares with the Middle East

The Solution We Are Afraid to Try A relative of mine who had earlier divorced in his wife, created a scandal in our family with his relationship to another woman.  There were two horrifying things about the relationship. First they were a man and a woman living together and not married. Second, she was black […]

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An Arab Fourth of July, An American Ramadan

  On the Fourth of July my husband and I happened to be in Dallas, Texas, where we were visiting a young couple from Lebanon.  We have known the wife since she was a cute little seven year old.  Now she has a hospitable husband and two handsome little boys. That evening we all drove […]

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Fifteen Ways to Practice the Golden Rule

Jesus was an original thinker, a revolutionary, with a tendency to turn the prevailing ideals upside down.  But when Jesus said, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you,” he was quoting the Old Testament, reminding his listeners of something they were supposed to know already. And you, my reader, know that […]

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Uxt Mary, Incomparable Middle Eastern Woman

  On International Women’s Day it occurred to me that I should write a story about a Middle Eastern woman, a story that would be a tribute to the brave and noble women of our world.  Then I become indecisive, knowing so many women— smart women, strong women, abused and used women, courageous, creative, happy […]

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Our Debt to Mustapha, a Lebanese Neighbor

  One of the advantages of living at Mafraq Sharooq in Musaitbeh, Beirut, was the presence of Mustapha’s grocery just around the corner. It was not a modern supermarket, not the brightest, cleanest, most organized store in West Beirut, which is exactly what was so nice about it. Mustapha Kais, the owner and manager and […]

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Trading Our Biases for Peace in the Middle East

Today I posted on Amazon a review of a new book, actually an updated and enriched version of Whose Promised Land? by Colin Chapman.  I called it “the most complete, the most objective and the most practical” of my whole shelf-full of books on this subject. My review includes a brief summary of the book […]

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